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Sunday, June 9, 2013

pecah hati dan bersabar dengan kerenah rakan seusaha

Satu jemaah keluar di suatu tempat. Diberitahu oleh orang- orang tempatan ada seorang rakan seusaha, orang lama, yang sudah tidak aktif lagi, akibat pertengkaran / pertelingkahan pendapat dengan rakan- rakan seusaha lain. Maulana dalam jemaah, mahu ke rumah rakan tersebut. Orang tempatan berkata bahawa rakan tersebut tidak mahu berjumpa dengan mereka. Maulana menjawab, dia tidak mahu berjumpa dengan kamu, tapi bukan saya.

Di rumah rakan tersebut, setelah bercerita panjang lebar, maulana berkata, saya cadangkan macam ni, setiap kali lepas solat dan tahajjud, awak doakan rakan- rakan yang tak sependapat dengan awak tu, semua Allah cabut nyawa cepat- cepat. Biar mati cepat sikit. Rakan tersebut terkejut dengan cadangan sedemikian. Maulana menyambung, kalau semua dah meninggal, senanglah sebab tinggal awak seorang sahaja. Bolehlah awak mula dari awal, bangkitkan balik usaha, cari orang baru, dah tentu diorang ikut pendapat awak masa tu nanti. Rakan tersebut terkejut dan berkata, bukankah berdosa untuk doakan orang mati cepat.

Maulana berkata, maka bersabarlah dengan rakan- rakan awak. Duduk sama, bincang elok- elok, tolak ansur, sabar dengan kerenah orang lain. Inilah yang dipanggil mujahadah.

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A jamaat went out at a place, and was informed there was an old worker who no longer active, possible reason is there was an argument with other local brothers. There's a maulana in that jamaat, requesting to go visit that old brother, but the local brothers said that he does not want to meet them. The maulana retorted back, that he does not want to meet you, but not me.

So, the maulana went there, and suggested to that old worker, why don't you pray to Allah, after every prayer and tahajjud, that those who are not in the same page with you, died quickly? The old brother was shocked at this suggestion. The maulana continued thus, after all those people died, then you can start the work from scratch, find new brothers, then those new brothers will follow your opinions. The old worker is so shocked, and said, isn't that too much, and sinful to pray that other people died quickly?

Then the maulana said, therefore, be patient with them, sit with them, discuss, give and take. Be patience with other brothers' behavior. Now, this is mujahadah.